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A nature that lowers itself before the wife, giving up self-respect, will always bring shame among good people.<\/p>","protected":false},"featured_media":0,"template":"","kural_section":[40],"literary_category":[6],"author_poet":[22],"thinai_type":[],"work_title":[12],"class_list":["post-1105","verse","type-verse","status-publish","hentry","kural_section-natpiyal","literary_category-patinenkilkanakku","author_poet-thiruvalluvar","work_title-thirukkural"],"acf":{"traditional_verse_number":"\u0b95\u0bc1\u0bb1\u0bb3\u0bcd 903","verse_sort":903,"tamil_verse_text":"\u0b87\u0bb2\u0bcd\u0bb2\u0bbe\u0bb3\u0bcd\u0b95\u0ba3\u0bcd \u0ba4\u0bbe\u0bb4\u0bcd\u0ba8\u0bcd\u0ba4 \u0b87\u0baf\u0bb2\u0bcd\u0baa\u0bbf\u0ba9\u0bcd\u0bae\u0bc8 \u0b8e\u0b9e\u0bcd\u0b9e\u0bbe\u0ba9\u0bcd\u0bb1\u0bc1\u0bae\u0bcd\n\u0ba8\u0bb2\u0bcd\u0bb2\u0bbe\u0bb0\u0bc1\u0bb3\u0bcd \u0ba8\u0bbe\u0ba3\u0bc1\u0ba4\u0bcd \u0ba4\u0bb0\u0bc1\u0bae\u0bcd.","english_translation":"","historical_notes":"","kural_adhigaram":160,"transliteration":"Illaalkan Thaazhndha Iyalpinmai Egngnaandrum \/ Nallaarul Naanuth Tharum","couplet_en":"The weakling who humbleth himself before his wife will always be ashamed to show his face before the worthy.","word_meanings":"\u0b87\u0bb2\u0bcd\u0bb2\u0bbe\u0bb3\u0bcd\u0b95\u0ba3\u0bcd | before the wife\n\u0ba4\u0bbe\u0bb4\u0bcd\u0ba8\u0bcd\u0ba4 | lowered, subservient\n\u0b87\u0baf\u0bb2\u0bcd\u0baa\u0bbf\u0ba9\u0bcd\u0bae\u0bc8 | the nature of lacking (self-respect)\n\u0b8e\u0b9e\u0bcd\u0b9e\u0bbe\u0ba9\u0bcd\u0bb1\u0bc1\u0bae\u0bcd | always\n\u0ba8\u0bb2\u0bcd\u0bb2\u0bbe\u0bb0\u0bc1\u0bb3\u0bcd | among good people\n\u0ba8\u0bbe\u0ba3\u0bc1\u0ba4\u0bcd \u0ba4\u0bb0\u0bc1\u0bae\u0bcd | will cause shame","meaning_ta":"\u0bae\u0ba9\u0bc8\u0bb5\u0bbf\u0baf\u0bbf\u0ba9\u0bcd \u0bae\u0bc1\u0ba9\u0bcd \u0ba4\u0ba9\u0bcd \u0b9a\u0bc1\u0baf\u0bae\u0bb0\u0bbf\u0baf\u0bbe\u0ba4\u0bc8\u0baf\u0bc8 \u0b87\u0bb4\u0ba8\u0bcd\u0ba4\u0bc1 \u0ba4\u0bbe\u0bb4\u0bcd\u0ba8\u0bcd\u0ba4\u0bc1 \u0ba8\u0b9f\u0b95\u0bcd\u0b95\u0bc1\u0bae\u0bcd \u0ba4\u0ba9\u0bcd\u0bae\u0bc8, \u0ba8\u0bb2\u0bcd\u0bb2\u0bcb\u0bb0\u0bcd \u0ba8\u0b9f\u0bc1\u0bb5\u0bbf\u0bb2\u0bcd \u0b8e\u0baa\u0bcd\u0baa\u0bcb\u0ba4\u0bc1\u0bae\u0bcd \u0bb5\u0bc6\u0b9f\u0bcd\u0b95\u0ba4\u0bcd\u0ba4\u0bc8\u0baf\u0bc7 \u0ba4\u0bb0\u0bc1\u0bae\u0bcd.","meaning_en":"A nature that lowers itself before the wife, giving up self-respect, will always bring shame among good people.","explanation_ta":"\u0b87\u0ba8\u0bcd\u0ba4\u0b95\u0bcd \u0b95\u0bc1\u0bb1\u0bb3\u0bbf\u0bb2\u0bcd \u0bb5\u0bb0\u0bc1\u0bae\u0bcd '\u0ba4\u0bbe\u0bb4\u0bcd\u0ba8\u0bcd\u0ba4 \u0b87\u0baf\u0bb2\u0bcd\u0baa\u0bc1' \u0b8e\u0ba9\u0bcd\u0baa\u0ba4\u0bc8\u0b9a\u0bcd \u0b9a\u0bb0\u0bbf\u0baf\u0bbe\u0b95\u0baa\u0bcd \u0baa\u0bc1\u0bb0\u0bbf\u0ba8\u0bcd\u0ba4\u0bc1\u0b95\u0bca\u0bb3\u0bcd\u0bb3 \u0bb5\u0bc7\u0ba3\u0bcd\u0b9f\u0bc1\u0bae\u0bcd. \u0ba4\u0ba9\u0bcd \u0bae\u0ba9\u0bc8\u0bb5\u0bbf\u0baf\u0bc8 \u0bae\u0ba4\u0bbf\u0ba4\u0bcd\u0ba4\u0bc1 \u0b85\u0bb5\u0bb3\u0bcb\u0b9f\u0bc1 \u0b95\u0bb2\u0ba8\u0bcd\u0ba4\u0bc1\u0baa\u0bc7\u0b9a\u0bc1\u0bb5\u0ba4\u0bc1 \u0ba4\u0bbe\u0bb4\u0bcd\u0bb5\u0bc1 \u0b85\u0bb2\u0bcd\u0bb2; 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Respecting one's wife and talking things over with her is no lowering; it is a fine rule of married life. What Valluvar condemns here is the lack of manliness that loses all self-regard and clarity and looks at another's face for every decision. The fault, in other words, is not in the wife but in the husband who has lost his footing.\n\nThere is something to notice in 'nallaarul naanuth tharum'. The good are those with sound judgement and conduct. Before such people a man feels shame when he cannot fulfil his duty. Shame is a warning from our own conscience, and the one who listens to it mends himself.\n\nThe word 'enjnaandrum', always, is important. This shame is not for a day or two. It continues. Once someone gives up his self-respect, it becomes a habit and follows him through life.\n\nShame is in a way a healthy feeling. It makes us aware of our state and urges us to mend it. In present life, consultation within the family is necessary. But to avoid responsibility where decisions must be taken is a shortcoming. 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He was a good man and well educated, but he hesitated to decide anything himself. For the temple accounts, the festival arrangements and the salary of the priest, he would go to his wife Parvathi and ask, \"What do you say?\" Parvathi was wise, and Subbaiyar went and repeated her words to the village exactly as she had said them.\n\nOnce, before the Purattasi festival, the village elders met. They debated whether to renovate the temple hall or expand the free feeding. All asked for Subbaiyar's view. He hesitated. \"I will ask at home and tell you tomorrow,\" he said.\n\nThat night an elder of the village spoke to him quietly. \"Subbaiyar, consulting is good. But you are the trustee. The village gave you this responsibility. If you fetch the decision from your house every time, how will the village trust you?\" The words pricked him. He felt his standing fall.\n\nBack home he told Parvathi of his trouble. She smiled and said, \"I understand your love. But take my advice as one more help, and I will respect the decision you reach by your own thought. I do not want the burden of making the decision. I want to see you stand on your own understanding.\"\n\nAt the meeting next day Subbaiyar spoke clearly. He said it was better to postpone the hall renovation and expand the free feeding first, and he showed the cost worked out. The villagers happily agreed.\n\nFrom then on the village respected him more than before. He did not give up seeking counsel at home, but he took the responsibility of decision himself. That brought him honour among the good.","reflection_ta":"\u0b8e\u0ba8\u0bcd\u0ba4 \u0bae\u0bc1\u0b9f\u0bbf\u0bb5\u0bc1\u0b95\u0bb3\u0bbf\u0bb2\u0bcd \u0bae\u0bc1\u0b9f\u0bbf\u0bb5\u0bbf\u0ba9\u0bcd \u0baa\u0bca\u0bb1\u0bc1\u0baa\u0bcd\u0baa\u0bc8\u0ba4\u0bcd \u0ba4\u0bb5\u0bbf\u0bb0\u0bcd\u0b95\u0bcd\u0b95\u0bb5\u0bc7 \u0ba8\u0bc0\u0b99\u0bcd\u0b95\u0bb3\u0bcd \u0baa\u0bbf\u0bb1\u0bb0\u0bbf\u0b9f\u0bae\u0bcd \u0b95\u0bc7\u0b9f\u0bcd\u0b95\u0bbf\u0bb1\u0bc0\u0bb0\u0bcd\u0b95\u0bb3\u0bcd?","reflection_en":"In which decisions do you ask others so that you can avoid owning the result?","image_prompt":"A village temple trustee with a ledger standing before a gathering of elders in a pillared temple mandapam, his wife visible in a doorway with an oil lamp, palm-leaf manuscript and Tanjore-painting inspired style, ivory, ochre, copper and deep teal palette, ornate gold border, no text or letters in the image."},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamil.one\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/verse\/1105","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamil.one\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/verse"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamil.one\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/verse"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/tamil.one\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/verse\/1105\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1890,"href":"https:\/\/tamil.one\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/verse\/1105\/revisions\/1890"}],"acf:post":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamil.one\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/adhigaram\/160"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/tamil.one\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1105"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"kural_section","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamil.one\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/kural_section?post=1105"},{"taxonomy":"literary_category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamil.one\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/literary_category?post=1105"},{"taxonomy":"author_poet","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamil.one\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/author_poet?post=1105"},{"taxonomy":"thinai_type","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamil.one\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/thinai_type?post=1105"},{"taxonomy":"work_title","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tamil.one\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/work_title?post=1105"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}